Thursday, September 21, 2006
To my big boss
Dear Big Boss,I read your latest blog post. You know, we understand, really. Ranting things out probably makes you feel slightly better. Else, why people keep blogs? Sometimes, sharing your troubles with someone will lighten the load on yourself.
If you never say, how will others know?
We'll keep things going for you, so you better keep going too. I'm in because of you, and I'm not giving up. Sometimes, we just need to focus hard enough on our goal. Forget the process, leave the negativity towards the end for evaluation.
It's not easy, I know. But hey, what happened, has happened! Look forward and do what you can within your limits. Learn to say no. Learn to reject. Learn to get help from others.
You know, negative thoughts should be treated like insurance. You think about the what-ifs, and don't expect or hope for it to happen. Buy insurance for accidents, and wish you never have to use it. We usually don't go to the extent of not going out so we wouldn't get hit by a car, right? Similarly, think about the what-ifs, once in a while. But don't focus on it so much. They are there, so you are prepared when things does go wrong.
Life will be so much easier this way.
Maybe I don't understand 100% how you're feeling, but I do, to a certain extent. I've gone through similar phases. When someone close goes away, we can't help but feel sorrow. It's only human, my dear. Whether you spent time with him/her only determines the amount of regret that you feel, not the extent of sadness. And time can never be enough.
And when we only have 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, we need to prioritise. Are you? Whatever your decision, that should generate the least amount of regret. And probably the most amount of happiness. Give and take; it's ultimately a huge balancing act.
Well, don't even know if you'll see this post, but be sure, I'm always here if you need someone to talk to.
Tell yourself, life rocks. This is the beauty, to be brought out by imperfections. ^-^
Lots of Love,
QueenPig
Labels: life
posted by QueenPig @ 1:12 PM
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At 11:33 PM ,
jumbosale said...heyz,
i finally saw ur blog when i have a couple of hours of break for blogs surfing (which i havent been doing for over a few months) now before i contemplate going back to sleep or going back to sci for radio stuff. mmm... ai pia jia... something something... haha.
thanks for the entry, the queen is dedicating to me sia~ wahaha...
i guess what i feel pek chek abt is perhaps almost every element for a dramatic storyplot is thrown in at one go la. i've learnt to deal with deaths, that's why i was able to hold back, but sometimes it takes me a lot of time to recover, and i dun hav that amt of time with all the commitments. and i somehow really feel damn bad for ppl around me. haiz...
but dun worry, i'm still gonna do my best in everything i do. ;)
Regards,
Yong -
At 10:56 PM ,
QueenPig said...Ever had a piggy hug?
*hugz*
:)
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